In this Money Bootcamp discussion, we chat with attorney and mediator Lerato Seroke about the financial and legal implications of your marriage contract. When it comes to marriage, most couples focus on the romance, the wedding venue, and the guest...
Is marriage outdated?
Maya Fisher-FrenchMay 20, 2025
A few weeks ago, I posted some graphs about the declining marriage rates in South Africa from the Outlier.co.za newsletter. This set off a robust conversation about why marriage rates were declining. There was a strong feeling that because many...
Five financial conversations to have with your fiancé
Guest AuthorMay 6, 2025
Amidst the excitement of wedding planning, it’s easy to overlook a crucial aspect of marriage: financial planning. Metropolitan Gauteng’s General Manager, Queen Malobane, urges couples to have open, practical discussions about money before the big...
Beware sexually transmitted debt
Guest AuthorFeb 16, 2022
National Debt Advisors caution South Africans against sexually transmitted debt in light of the global prevalence of love fraud. The airing of Netflix’s most recent true-crime documentary, The Tinder Swindler, shone the spotlight on the prevalence...
Video: Marriage and money
Maya Fisher-FrenchSep 7, 2021
When couples marry, including Customary Marriage, they will automatically be married under community of property, unless they sign a separate antenuptial contract. This is seen as a way to protect women, especially those who stay at home to raise...
How your marital regime affects estate planning
Guest AuthorFeb 14, 2021
Christel Botha, fiduciary services manager at Alexander Forbes, looks at the impact that various marriage contracts have in the event of the death of a spouse. The month of love has arrived, and many couples will be getting married, or planning a...
Money Makeover: Talking money so that your partner will listen
Maya Fisher-FrenchMay 13, 2020
Any financial journey cannot progress unless your partner is on board. If you share a household, you share your finances. Money is a highly emotional topic; it is cited as the number one reason for divorce. So, having a relationship where you can...
Listen: Money Makeover: Love and Money
Maya Fisher-FrenchMay 1, 2020
Regardless of how motivated you are to improve your finances, you will struggle to make progress unless your partner is also on board. In our third City Press/ABSA Money Makeover podcast, Maya (@mayaonmoney) and Mapalo (@womanandfinance) talk...
Love, money and the Cinderella complex
Maya Fisher-FrenchApr 3, 2017
How women are navigating relationships as the breadwinner. After a talk I had given at a Women’s Day breakfast, a woman in her early 30s came to chat to me about an issue that faces many financially independent women. My talk had been about the...
Are you man enough to share your income?
Maya Fisher-FrenchSep 8, 2016
Money is a big issue for many couples, so much so that it is the main cause of divorce. Yet finding an equitable way to manage the household finances is a bit like finding the holy grail. The main issues for couples around money are: a discrepancy...

Previous Articles
Sort out your admin
Feb 22, 2016
In the final episode of Change in your Pocket, we highlight the importance of dealing with various admin issues before you get married. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6attRo6UGUQ&feature=youtu.be – Video supplied by BrightRock Welcome to the Change Exchange, where...
Merging your finances
Feb 15, 2016
When you get married, it's not just your hearts that become one, but also your money. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=piYXZDq5TJQ&feature=youtu.be – Video supplied by BrightRock Welcome to the Change Exchange, where we're discussing rings and cha-ching! Even if you...
The cost of tying the knot
Feb 8, 2016
How you manage your wedding budget will have a serious impact on your financial future. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uJu_uQ68CHE&feature=youtu.be – Video supplied by BrightRock Welcome to the Change Exchange, where we're discussing rings and cha-ching! One of the...
Understand your marriage contract
Jan 31, 2016
Many couples underestimate the importance of their marriage contract, and the implications it has in the case of death or divorce. Watch Episode 16 of the Change in your Pocket series for a detailed explanation of the various marriage contracts. – Video supplied by...
How to talk to your partner about money
Jan 25, 2016
Money is consistently the number one thing that couples fight about, so in this episode of Change in your Pocket, we give you practical advice on how to talk to your partner about money. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7IZxbNdx4rA&feature=youtu.be – Video supplied...
How much would you spend on your wedding?
Oct 22, 2014
The costs of the wedding are just the tip of the money iceberg when it comes to getting married. In the past, according to tradition, a young couple could expect the bride’s parents to pay for their wedding with a contribution by the groom’s family to cover the drinks...
Badly worded divorce orders rob women of retirement fund benefits
Sep 7, 2014
Russell Anderson, consulting senior policy advisor at the Association for Savings and Investment South Africa (ASISA), says if you are a woman facing divorce, it is critical that you ensure that the wording of your final divorce order does not fail you when it comes...
Financial tips for the bride-to-be
Aug 26, 2014
How the couple handle their finances, bank accounts and budgeting has a far greater ripple effect on a marriage than the perfect dress or the three-tier red velvet cake, writes Citadel Advisory Partner, Kirsten Smit. White dresses, wedding décor, floral decoration,...
How to handle joint expenses
Apr 7, 2014
When you get married it is not just your hearts that become one, but also your money. Even if you are one of those financially independent couples where ‘his is his’ and ‘hers is hers’, when you live together, have kids together and hopefully retire together, there is...








