Money doesn’t have to be a trigger in your relationship if you both get on the same page with how to plan, manage and share it, says Johan Werth, Franchise Principal and Financial Planner at Consult by Momentum. How couples organise their finances...
Five financial conversations to have with your fiancé
Guest AuthorMay 6, 2025
Amidst the excitement of wedding planning, it’s easy to overlook a crucial aspect of marriage: financial planning. Metropolitan Gauteng’s General Manager, Queen Malobane, urges couples to have open, practical discussions about money before the big...
Listen: When love doesn’t pay the bills: dating outside your financial league
Maya Fisher-FrenchMar 22, 2024
In this episode of the My Money, My lifestyle podcast, Maya is joined by Queen Malobane, Provincial General Manager at Metropolitan, as they delve into the complex intersection of money and relationships. The romantic notion that love conquers all...
Red hearts to red flags: spotting love’s financial warning signs
Guest AuthorFeb 20, 2024
Farzana Botha, Communications Manager at Sanlam Risk and Savings, and Lee Hancox, Head of Channel and Segment Marketing at Sanlam, present a guide to ‘relationship financial flags’, helping South Africans navigate the complexities of love’s...
Women in Conversation: Navigating money conversations in a relationship
Maya Fisher-FrenchDec 14, 2023
Money is not only rands and cents – it is also a currency of emotions, which is why money conversations are so hard. In this podcast, Maya and Andrea have a candid discussion with relationship therapist Connie Valkin about how to have these...
Women in Conversation: Creating financial equality in a relationship
Maya Fisher-FrenchNov 17, 2023
Money conversations are hard. They are harder than conversations about sex or the in-laws. But there is seldom financial equality in a relationship, and this inequality often causes conflict. The person who makes more money tends to have more power...
Listen: Money moves for newlyweds
Maya Fisher-FrenchMar 10, 2023
In this podcast, Maya and Moroka Modiba, author of Think Yourself Rich, discuss how newlyweds should start managing their finances together, why a household budget is important, and the shared goals that need to be discussed. Moroka also unpacks...
Beware sexually transmitted debt
Guest AuthorFeb 16, 2022
National Debt Advisors caution South Africans against sexually transmitted debt in light of the global prevalence of love fraud. The airing of Netflix’s most recent true-crime documentary, The Tinder Swindler, shone the spotlight on the prevalence...
Money Makeover: Talking money so that your partner will listen
Maya Fisher-FrenchMay 13, 2020
Any financial journey cannot progress unless your partner is on board. If you share a household, you share your finances. Money is a highly emotional topic; it is cited as the number one reason for divorce. So, having a relationship where you can...
Listen: Money Makeover: Love and Money
Maya Fisher-FrenchMay 1, 2020
Regardless of how motivated you are to improve your finances, you will struggle to make progress unless your partner is also on board. In our third City Press/ABSA Money Makeover podcast, Maya (@mayaonmoney) and Mapalo (@womanandfinance) talk...

Previous Articles
Love, money and the Cinderella complex
Apr 3, 2017
How women are navigating relationships as the breadwinner. After a talk I had given at a Women’s Day breakfast, a woman in her early 30s came to chat to me about an issue that faces many financially independent women. My talk had been about the “Cinderella Complex”...
Are you man enough to share your income?
Sep 8, 2016
Money is a big issue for many couples, so much so that it is the main cause of divorce. Yet finding an equitable way to manage the household finances is a bit like finding the holy grail. The main issues for couples around money are: a discrepancy in the amount each...
Financial tips for the bride-to-be
Aug 26, 2014
How the couple handle their finances, bank accounts and budgeting has a far greater ripple effect on a marriage than the perfect dress or the three-tier red velvet cake, writes Citadel Advisory Partner, Kirsten Smit. White dresses, wedding décor, floral decoration,...
How to handle joint expenses
Apr 7, 2014
When you get married it is not just your hearts that become one, but also your money. Even if you are one of those financially independent couples where ‘his is his’ and ‘hers is hers’, when you live together, have kids together and hopefully retire together, there is...
Couples and money
Jun 11, 2011
Couples argue about money more than almost anything else and these conversations are often fraught and unresolved. In fact, it's safe to say you probably have the same conversation with your partner over and over again, with variations. Here are some tips on how to...









