Money is not only rands and cents – it is also a currency of emotions, which is why money conversations are so hard. In this podcast, Maya and Andrea have a candid discussion with relationship therapist Connie Valkin about how to have these...
Listen: Talking to your children about money
Maya Fisher-FrenchMar 15, 2021
How do you teach your children to manage money? It starts at home, says 13-year-old Alidzulwi Tshikosi, author of Not being authentic can be costly - a warning tale of a young man who uses credit to live beyond his means and which ultimately...
Money Makeover: Talking money so that your partner will listen
Maya Fisher-FrenchMay 13, 2020
Any financial journey cannot progress unless your partner is on board. If you share a household, you share your finances. Money is a highly emotional topic; it is cited as the number one reason for divorce. So, having a relationship where you can...
Listen: Teaching your kids about money
Maya Fisher-FrenchMay 8, 2020
Most parents make supreme sacrifices to provide for their children. Research shows that mothers in particular will put their children’s needs before their own. We want to offer our children the perfect world where they want for nothing, where they...
Listen: Money Makeover: Love and Money
Maya Fisher-FrenchMay 1, 2020
Regardless of how motivated you are to improve your finances, you will struggle to make progress unless your partner is also on board. In our third City Press/ABSA Money Makeover podcast, Maya (@mayaonmoney) and Mapalo (@womanandfinance) talk...
Helping your children to manage their money
Maya Fisher-FrenchJun 18, 2018
As a mom, my goal is to see my two children grow up to be independent and to stand on their own two feet. A big part of this journey is financial education. You can give your children the best academic education you can afford, but if they don’t...
Financial mistakes people make in divorce
Angelique RuzickaJun 14, 2018
Discussing “what will happen if we get divorced”, particularly financially, is a conversation that is often avoided before entering into a marriage agreement because it is deemed unromantic or tainting a marriage before it’s even started. But this...
A Mother’s Day gift worth a thousand boxes of chocolates
Guest AuthorMay 11, 2018
Why not skip the chocolates and the bubble bath on Mother’s Day this year, says Emma Heap, Chief Growth Officer at 10X Investments, and give your mother something really meaningful? We know Mother’s Day is upon us when the supermarket shelves are...
Divorcing from the breadwinner
Guest AuthorFeb 1, 2018
Sunel Veldtman, financial planner and founder of Foundation Family Wealth shares her advice to ex-spouses who have made career sacrifices for their family. Too many times I’ve sat across the table from a sobbing woman going through a divorce....
Love, money and the Cinderella complex
Maya Fisher-FrenchApr 3, 2017
How women are navigating relationships as the breadwinner. After a talk I had given at a Women’s Day breakfast, a woman in her early 30s came to chat to me about an issue that faces many financially independent women. My talk had been about the...
Previous Articles
Raising your kids with values
May 9, 2016
Yesterday marked the day that I had been a mother for exactly 16 years, as this year my son’s birthday fell on Mother’s Day. The very essence of being a mother is to put our children first, so yesterday was all about his big day ‒ so no breakfast in bed for me,...
How to talk to your partner about money
Jan 25, 2016
Money is consistently the number one thing that couples fight about, so in this episode of Change in your Pocket, we give you practical advice on how to talk to your partner about money. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7IZxbNdx4rA&feature=youtu.be – Video supplied...
How to talk to your child about money
Jan 18, 2016
In episode 14 of the Change in your Pocket series, we examine how best to go about discussing money with young children. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoBHYWeKvGY&feature=youtu.be – Video supplied by BrightRock Welcome to The Change Exchange where we're exploring...
The best gift my mother ever gave me
May 15, 2015
I was fortunate growing up to have a really great mom. She was the kind of person one thinks of when you say “mother”. She was a really involved parent – she made the pom-poms for sports day, sewed pretty dresses for me, came to all the parent-teacher meetings, and...
Talking to your child about money
Oct 28, 2014
What is it about money that makes it so difficult to discuss with our children? While many taboos around discussing sex, drugs and politics have broken down, for some reason money remains a topic that many parents feel uncomfortable talking about. So how do you go...
Financial tips for the bride-to-be
Aug 26, 2014
How the couple handle their finances, bank accounts and budgeting has a far greater ripple effect on a marriage than the perfect dress or the three-tier red velvet cake, writes Citadel Advisory Partner, Kirsten Smit. White dresses, wedding décor, floral decoration,...
How to talk about money with your partner
Jun 9, 2014
An hour before interviewing Carl Richards, author of The Behavior Gap, my husband and I had just had one of those money arguments that all couples invariably have, so as I shook Carl’s hand I blurted out “how do you speak to your partner about money?” It turned out to...
It is never too early to talk about money
May 16, 2012
I was recently relating a story to a friend about a conversation I had with my two boys aged 7 and 11 where they had grilled me on financial matters. They wanted to know if we owed money on our house and if our cars were paid off. They wanted to know what taxes were...